5 Ways to Smile

5 Ways to Smile

 

Lift Yourself Up and Smile

Sometimes, life can get you down. Things don’t go your way. Your dreams fall apart.

When this happen, it’s easy to falls down the spiral. Almost familiar. Yet, our true power comes from lifting ourselves up out the dark and comfortable.

Feeling Good Power can take root again. It is found by choosing Joy and excitement again. Here are 5 ways to help you smile and change your life for the better:

1. Get Outside. Nature if very healing. Allow the sun to warm your brow. Let it energize you. Feel the breeze on your skin, or a cold snap wake you up on a gray chilling day. Pleasure is found everywhere when you open your mind to the outside world.

2. Gratitude- Acknowledge your challenges or your “failures” but don’t put much more energy on that once it is done. Refocus on what you have learned from your mistakes and make better choices moving forward. Find thanks for all the little things in the past opportunities that have reminded you of your own unique brilliance and genius. There is always something good in everything.

3. Be kind to others and yourself. It feels good to be in service and to uplift others. But just as important- meet your own needs in a kind way. Remind yourself to listen to your Higher Self Guidance, and let go of your doubt. Acknowledge your fears-and move right through them with compassion. Treat yourself to things that bring you authentic joy and a smile on your face. Practicing smiling wakes up the Inner Kindness.

4. Reach out to others. Often people who are depressed feel alone. There are billions of people on this planet. Make contact and put yourself out there again. 

5. Follow your passion. It’s easy to believe less about ourselves than to see the wonderful qualities that make up our core. Ask others to reflect back your strengths and learn to accept praise. Take critical feedback as someone else’s view-but not necessarily truth, and something you can work on or not to move forward.

We all deserve to smile. Joy is always here. May you find your smile today and share it with life!

Sharon Hartnett CST-D
703 509-1792
www.massageincolumbusohio.com

www.craniosacraltherapistcolumbus.com

 

Let Love Lead

Let Love Lead

 

 

Do you ever feel lost?

Have you stopped listening?

If you pay attention, you will always find that strand of love that is dancing in the breeze, waiting to be held.

To feel truly happy, I think it is necessary to quiet down and notice how love is supporting you. It’s everywhere. And it shows up in every moment.

Listen to your heart, and make your best decisions there with clarity and grounding.

Real love is true. You’ll know that by the way you feel

 

Sharon Hartnett CST-D

703 509-1792

www.craniosacraltherapistcolumbus.com

 

 

 

 

 

 

Two Hearts Meeting Together

Today, I felt like writing an informal post about Hearts Meeting.  A chat about how much I love my work.  I am so fortunate that I get to wake up each day, loving my family, my home, and my interactions with life.  It prepares me to be able to be in service in the work I chose.  And I love working with people.  Mostly because it opens my heart. And it opens other people’s hearts.

Hearts

Hearts

In my work practice, I have clients come see me for a variety of reasons.  Mostly people who are uncomfortable with something in life:  their physical bodies, feelings, unclear thinking or relationships to the spiritual.   I listen.  I take in the story from a neutral place.  And then I guide.  My job is to facilitate the unfolding of my client’s own inner wisdom.  For I am not actually the healer, but rather a facilitator of sorts.  For over 25+ years, I have studied, worked and practiced healing techniques to help myself, those nearby whom I love, and my clients who want to connect with their Higher Purpose.  People who want to feel at home in their bodies, their lives with heart and vitality.  How I do that is by being Present with myself, my client and trusting the process of the energy dynamics.  I center in my heart of hearts.

All of life has a stirring of energy.  It lives throughout all of consciousness.  I know this may sound a little far out for some.  But I feel it in the presence of all living things.  I feel it in myself, and especially when I connect from my heart to others.  I may use energy healing, craniosacral therapy or Hakomi or such as tools, but what deeply matters is that we all are part of a sacred heart infinite web.  Humanity is riding on just one small wave in the Universe, but everything is interconnected.  We are interconnected.  Yet we are also given this gift of discovering a sense of self.  and while there may be many similarities between us, we each have a chance to write our own unique stories.  In this, I find passion and heart.  When I connect with my clients on the table, I love the brain and the body, but most of all-touching from my heart to another.  It is so transformational and healing.

You don’t have to be a healer do this.  We are all ordinary people, humble coming from the same Source.  We all have the ability to heal the soul.  It may appear otherwise, but the truth is that in the little things. we can make huge positive change.  Choosing to love from your heart in any moment is a choice we can all make.  Healing this planet, and all the people here is all about this and connecting to other hearts.

I finish now, with a heart full of gratitude for all my clients, as well as for the fullness in my life.  And I wish you all the same.

Sharon Hartnett CST-D, SI, BHSP

703 509-1792

www.craniosacraltherapistcolumbus.com

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Can’t Sleep? Try Craniosacral Therapy

Not able to sleep Well? Looking for some help for Insomnia?

Today I was reading an article that discussed how women often have more challenges with sleep insomnia than men.  In my experience, due to hormonal fluctuations, many women that I have seen in my practice would confirm this.  They feel restless and can’t stop thinking or worrying either before going to sleep or in the middle of the night.   Especially around 3AM.  For me, this makes perfect sense  as the body system’s are fluctuating due to the menstrual cycle, perimenopause or the like, that for some women, they would not sleep as well due to hormonal falls and rises.  They could probably benefit from some type of hormonal support.  But the number one reason for insomnia is stress.  For women in particular, my guess is that stressful thinking and emotional swings, along with hormonal shifts can make it even more difficult to get the needed rest to have a productive day. That can be tough for a woman.

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Can’t sleep well?

What surprised me the most though, was that the article mentioned taking drugs as a remedy to this challenge. On second thought, I  guess I shouldn’t be so surprised because as I am writing this, the Universe in its full wisdom has sent a television commercial to come on for a sleeping drug that works with neurotransmitters with a list of negative side effects being marketed to help women sleep better.  This has become our social norm.  At the end, the watcher is told to ask his/her physician about this drug.    I am sure that there are some good benefits to some of these pharmaceuticals.  Sometimes we could use an easy way to help us through the night.  But is it possible that there are some more natural ways long-term modalities of self-correcting care that are just as good or even better to alleviate stress and sleep disruption?   My hope would be that physicians would more often say,  “here is a prescription for massage once a week for three months”.  Work on getting more exercise and eating well.  Why not go take a yoga class?”

I don’t know why I am still constantly baffled that medical insurance covers drugs so easily (which are quite expensive),  and that when we watch TV-we are bombarded with drug ads, yet massage and bodywork are still considered more of a luxury than a therapeutic modality that can help with things like sleep, stress, and tension.  It does take time to support the body to change longterm and  I know that this work doesn’t remedy insomnia for all people, but I have heard lots of positive feedback indicating how much better my clients sleep with their sessions. Research has shown that massage and bodywork are key in helping many people to feel better in so many ways.  In my view- one of the keys to this is that we are focusing on the human body with massage which is quite sensory and mindful.  During a massage, the thinking brain can relax and feel pleasure again instead of focusing on troubles.  The more we receive, the easier it is to re-educate our nervous systems  to wind down when done in a professional and healthy way.  The integration between the mind, body and spirit is integral to wellness.

Craniosacral Therapy, Myofascial Therapy and Structural Integration have especially been helpful from my view in helping people to relax and let go of stress too.   By working with the fascia, which is a 3 dimensional web of connective tissues that holds the body together (including being richly innervated), and helping it to let goof tension, the whole body can relax.  Have you ever come out of a good massage and everything feels and looks more positive?   The reason I specialize in these modalities, is that I LOVE hearing how relaxed and good people feel afterwards. As human beings, we have the capacity to love, feel pleasure, and to be happy.  But sometimes we need a little help.  And I am not sure that it always has to come in the form of a pill.

I am not suggesting that medicine be replaced.  And by all means, I am not a physician.  But my hope is that Massage Therapy, SomatoEmotional Release bodywork and perhaps work by psychotherapists that focus on the mind-body start to become more widespread to the public as a possible alternative to taking drugs for sleep and wellbeing.  My hope is that this will eventually be covered by insurance so that all of us can sleep well.

Sharon Hartnett LMT

740 966-5153

www.massageincolumbusohio.com

Why Craniosacral Therapy Works

I am not going to get into the physiology of Craniosacral, but rather focus on the experience.

When one thinks about life, there are absolutes and there are relative positions.

Absolutes are either all or nothing.  It’s not easy for us to live in absolutes.  From childhood, we are taught to identify different things with language.  Each thing we name has shades of interpretation.  It gives us a way to communicate verbally.  It helps our cognitive thinking to grow and expand.  Yet our spoken language can be so limiting.  Have you ever wanted to write something about an eloquent moment or something that felt rich and sensory, but there just was no way to explain it to another?

When we become aware of our observation while it is watching,  we can start to unravel everything that we have learned.  Forms and shapes lose the meaning we have placed upon them, and we get to see with fresh eyes.  Even deeper than that, we can uncover our true essence as we let go of our stories or attachment to what the outer physical world means to us.  Our relative thinking disappears and we unearth a truer joy that it the best word I can find to describe out true selves.  Where everything is One,  that is the only Absolute.  And even this explanation is encased in words.

I have found that as a Craniosacral Therapist that I dance with my clients in the quiet experiences of contact between the nervous systems and all the interconnection dialogue that takes place in a moment, and then in another.   The endless thinking patterns can come to a stop and there is a feeling of being present and more fully alive.  This doesn’t mean that our histories stop showing up, but we are aware of the “now” and can let those pass by without abuse, suffering or pain more and more as we become attuned to this type of living.   The energy that has been trapped and kept in chaos comes into order.  SomatoEmotional Release , in particular, is a process that  allows our stories to pass through the moment as it clears to completion. More advanced practitioners are well versed in holding space and techniques for this to occur as the mind, body and spirit come together for integration.

Often with Craniosacral,  I find that sensitive people are drawn to it.  This is because they are experts at tracking their sensations and expression of self.  Most of my clients who initially respond to Craniosacral Therapy will feel a lot on the table and walk away feeling great with new understanding.  However,  I also have clients who prefer deeper myofascial therapy work.  I love the fascia, so I am happy to oblige with some Structural Integration or whatever they need.  However,  as they begin to feel more deeply into their body’s,  they too begin to bring awareness to the subtle and find the benefits to such work.  In most cases, it is helpful to work deeply at times, and range to the gentle sweet touch of Craniosacral too.

Life is about learning about our relative perspectives, but ultimately to be free, we must let go of the mind to feel and sense deeply as well.   So whichever type of touch brings you to a greater awareness, jump into the dance.  Feel it all.  Wake up to your: touch, sounds, waves, melodies, sights and tastes.  Find your fullness and feel the emptiness.  Life is for the living and it’s all here.

Craniosacral Therapy Columbus

Craniosacral Columbus

I have found that Craniosacral is a very enlivening type of therapy that revitalizes and evokes the deeper happenings of the soul.

Sharon Hartnett LMT, CST, SI, Brennan Healer

703 509-1792

www.massageincolumbusohio.com

 

 

Can We Love Enough to Tip the Balance?

Choose Love Now

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In this world that we live in, there is a mixture of a lot of gray.

Nothing is quite as it seems.

Underneath the soot of the dark shadow, shines a light.

Yet the darkness hides the sweet silence of creation.

It is in the sacred human heart that a flame burns.

Its sparks flicker different colors.  But they all come from the warmth of the rhythmic beat.

Dance in it.  Let it free your wings.

Shift the balance of earth in surrender.

Choose love now.

Sharon Hartnett LMT

www.massageincolumbusohio.com